tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post1526149351221706636..comments2023-04-03T06:17:56.771+10:00Comments on I am a submissive husband: Submissive SexUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-22884945416833858412010-11-05T13:33:00.733+10:002010-11-05T13:33:00.733+10:00Submanhub said it pretty clear. Your wife will NO...Submanhub said it pretty clear. Your wife will NOT know exactly what you want if you continue to "beat around the bush". You need to talk to her and explain what you want. <br /><br />As far as the "quickie" is concerned, this is what she has learned from her Jr. High school days and until you explain or maybe suggest she read some literature that you convenietly provide, she seriously will have no clue. Maybe leave your computer on a page like this one???jellybeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01058762820079699862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-71679051299091495672010-11-05T07:47:39.538+10:002010-11-05T07:47:39.538+10:00Hi "At all Times" and "lovetosubmit...Hi "At all Times" and "lovetosubmit"<br /><br />yes yes yes.<br /><br />Communication. How to do it. Frrrrussstrrrraaatttinnng. Women. Cant live with em cant live without em.<br /><br />"I recognize that there is a paradox: I love orgasms, but I also love her to control me."<br />This is something she does not get.<br /><br />"a lot of women, feel the need to give you a quickie to keep you atisfied and happy"<br />And she is thinking she is doing me a favour. What guy would not jump at a woman offering sex. No strings attached. Well me for starters. But she does not get that.<br /><br />Thanks guys for writingsubmanhubhttp://submanhub.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-36811549660871694272010-11-04T21:50:22.794+10:002010-11-04T21:50:22.794+10:00Submanhub,
I don't know the ins and outs of yo...Submanhub,<br />I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship but there is some value to what at all times has said regarding communication. I had a "talk" with my wife about my submissive desires and she was accepting. I think she was confused and it has been a slow process with lots of ups and downs.<br /><br />That sounded like an erotic experience for you. I recognize that there is a paradox: I love orgasms, but I also love her to control me. The hottest experience we've had was when she tied me up, and sat over my face for cunnilingus. She had a terrific orgasm. She untied me, possibly had another orgasm, and then said it was time for bed.<br /><br />We will have some outstanding play time and then "put it away" for a while. She has never let me do that a second time, even though I have repeatedly told her how much I loved it. I really don't understand other than she may have a sense of guilt. There are times when she is "into it" - we have had a couple of times where she has had 6 or 7 orgasms and none for me - and times where she is uninterested.<br /><br />Women!lovetosubmithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04255078782896892207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-29605370379340274832010-11-04T21:26:02.715+10:002010-11-04T21:26:02.715+10:00Forget all this "topping from the bottom"...Forget all this "topping from the bottom", what you are doing is trying to communicate. The problem you face like most men in your position is that your wife does not understand what it is you really would like, and you are finding it impossible to explain it to her.<br /><br />Tell me if I am wrong, but it sounds like your wife, in common with a lot of women, feel the need to give you a quickie to keep you atisfied and happy. What she fails to realise is that you would actually prefer it if she would satisfy her own sexual needs, have you give her an orgasm, but ket you aroused teased but denied. By doing so, you would actually be less frustrated but she doesn't yet understand that you have changed from the man you were before.<br /><br />Somehow you need to explian this to her, make her understand that you want to submit to her, to have her in control and that you would prefer it if sometimes she tease and arouse you but make you wait.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-28628159662631932622010-11-04T10:43:23.504+10:002010-11-04T10:43:23.504+10:00sounds fun and maybe lead to more fun stuff too. ...sounds fun and maybe lead to more fun stuff too. Enjoy...Walter H. Schulze IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137440229102629342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-88459758372064930822010-11-04T10:17:28.776+10:002010-11-04T10:17:28.776+10:00Yes I realise that I am doing the topping from the...Yes I realise that I am doing the topping from the bottom.<br /><br />I guess I am trying to get her to become more consious about being in charge and perhaps more confident in bed.<br /><br />But I agree I need to accept her leadership. I guess I want to show her that it can be more than just plain ordinary. Spice it up if you likesubmanhubhttp://submanhub.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-66120072646829781822010-11-04T10:01:03.310+10:002010-11-04T10:01:03.310+10:00I totally understand your not wanting to orgasm......I totally understand your not wanting to orgasm...I sometimes go through that with my own wife, but one thing we submissive husbands need to do ASAP, is stop "topping from the bottom". For me, things got better when I stopped doing that. My 2 cents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com