tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post202832161020005513..comments2023-04-03T06:17:56.771+10:00Comments on I am a submissive husband: SexUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-28032506455298965542012-07-08T20:31:45.438+10:002012-07-08T20:31:45.438+10:00Hi Ava,
My wife does 'partake' in my fetis...Hi Ava,<br />My wife does 'partake' in my fetishes in that she indulges me because she loves me.<br /><br />I think though that she finds the idea of physically hurting me whether it be through whipping or abstaining from orgasm to be an anathema. It's just not her.<br /><br />To MsNaydi,<br />You put it so clesarly and so right.<br />It's just not my wife and it's not most wives.<br /><br />Ava - you & your boy friend need to meet up with my wife and I and maybe somewhere in the middle some learning and understanding will take place.submanhubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04979339663861061771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-81183917530842733352012-07-06T13:37:56.024+10:002012-07-06T13:37:56.024+10:00I'm in the same situation as you are in, excep...I'm in the same situation as you are in, except with my boyfriend. I tried showing him movies/scenes (exit to eden, verfolgt, etc) and blogs about the topic, to slowly reel him into the lifestyle, even mentioning about wanting to quit my job and become a dominatrix, jokingly, but the closest we've got to was some light spanking, which I don't mind but we can do so much more. <br /><br />Reading your blog, I see your wife does partake in the fetishes you desire like whipping.. if you want to move on to a higher level, kink wise, I don't see why you can't just tell her your fantasies straight forward (like the marriage counseling one)Avanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-29222555966282244762012-06-26T00:54:02.982+10:002012-06-26T00:54:02.982+10:00"The problem with even mentioning BDSM is tha..."The problem with even mentioning BDSM is that it is a distraction and conjures up images of whips and chains and dominatrix's in high heels. All of which I would love for her to be/do but it is not her and not her world. "<br /><br />The very thing that turns us vanilla women off of being the leader in our marriage is the implied requirement that we have to dress up like the cartoon dominatrix and use weapons on our husbands (who we love). Those corsets, leather and stilettos are uncomfortable, bizarre and scary to a regular person. The torture implements are anathema to many peace-loving women.<br /><br />And many of us just don't want to deal with something so alien. Ideally, we would like to be loved as we are, not for trying to role play to someone else's kink.MsNaydihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15991393424657367644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-15164581756785664142012-06-22T07:54:28.462+10:002012-06-22T07:54:28.462+10:00My Knight and I enjoy a lot of tease and denial wi...My Knight and I enjoy a lot of tease and denial without the BDSM. It's taken me a little bit, but I've finally come to a place where I am not only comfortable denying him, but I enjoy it. I wrote a blog post about why I enjoy playing T&D games with my Knight.It's here, if your lady is interested in reading it. http://queenandknight.blogspot.com/2012/06/twenty-six-days-and-counting.html?zx=cd00a24def59ee68Angeliquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06079421215693265281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-53545667385782976502012-06-22T00:13:31.991+10:002012-06-22T00:13:31.991+10:00The book you're looking for has been written. ...The book you're looking for has been written. Check out "Be Careful What You Wish For" by Sarah Jamison at: http://www.malechastityblog.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-42530399580039607242012-06-20T19:48:19.738+10:002012-06-20T19:48:19.738+10:00"All of which I would love for her to be/do b..."All of which I would love for her to be/do but it is not her and not her world."<br /><br />I recognize this situation. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com