tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post2634778161889741796..comments2023-04-03T06:17:56.771+10:00Comments on I am a submissive husband: emotional rollercoasterUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-72642871203535819042010-11-18T23:16:50.933+10:002010-11-18T23:16:50.933+10:00Mr. SMH,
I agree with Mr. Weave and Mr. RfM. It ...Mr. SMH,<br /><br />I agree with Mr. Weave and Mr. RfM. It does seem she is making an effort. Her deciding to actively punish you for bad behavior is a big step. Teasing you and making plans without asking you too. It actually sounds wonderful.<br /><br />Good job with the chores. Keep it up. I think you will find it helps with the attitude too. I am doing laundry now and am in a good space as a result.<br /><br />-SHWalter H. Schulze IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137440229102629342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-38736062991297723922010-11-18T10:06:06.518+10:002010-11-18T10:06:06.518+10:00Hi respect for Mistress,
I think it is extra hard...Hi respect for Mistress,<br /><br />I think it is extra hard because for so long I tried to be the leader and she is finding it hard - a bit of a head spin - for me to actually say OK I am not trying to lead. <br /><br />So while she has been in control she has not had to acknowledge it and she still hasn't. I do not think she views the sending out the invitation as a control or leadership thing. Whereas even when I was trying to lead, I would always ask her opinion before issuing an invitation.submanhubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04979339663861061771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-52495874771063176582010-11-18T09:45:02.498+10:002010-11-18T09:45:02.498+10:00It must be so difficult to balance everday life wi...It must be so difficult to balance everday life with an FLR. We only have my kids at the house once a week and while it's great to see them, it changes the dynamic of our regular lifestyle. <br />I know what you mean about the mindset when you're doing chores. But I find I also have to have that in my head to cope with other things - like Mistress organising stuff and then telling me. <br />We have a saying in our relationship - Mistress is always right - and while I don't always acknowledge it (to my cost!), it kind of sums up where we aim to be. But we found geting this FLR thing working takes time and it's full of pitfalls and compromises - just like any relationship. <br />It sounds like your wife is trying to adapt to the lifestyle. Hang in thereAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1545699417157358850.post-65885664774653932782010-11-18T09:35:40.834+10:002010-11-18T09:35:40.834+10:00I can imagine your frustration....ouch. I know you...I can imagine your frustration....ouch. I know you're trying hard. <br />I do wish my Wife had more libido, too. <br />Her making the coffee plans w/o you does sound like an appropriate step, though.<br />Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com