By the cheeky title you may gather I am in a goog mood at work.
Last night I hopped into bed and my wife asked if I had any dry lip stuff as hers had run out. Now perhaps in hindsight she was intimating she wanted something other than one of those lipstick type things to put on dry lips. But anyway. I fumbled around on my bedside table and was unable to locate the stick that usually is there. Surmising that it had rolled off I got out of bed and eventually located it under the bed and gave it to her.
There was an exchange where she said words along the lines of she did not intend me to go to so much effort and I replying that nothing was too much effort for her. She put the lip stuff on and when she handed the stick back to me I put some on and she leaned forward and we had a slimy and very fun kiss.
Then she said "Take your tee shirt off". Which I did as things were looking good.
She then put a clothes peg on each of my breasts. PAIN!
But I was getting aroused. I guess I am a pain slut. Is that the label?
She then said "Do you think you could leave them on all night"
wow
I am hard.
She tweeked them a few times and the pain shot through me and she also played with my hard cock and at times sucked it, bit down on it (ouch / confusing set of sensations and thoughts) and dug her finger nails in.
At one stage I asked what she was thinking. Hoping that she would tell and also hoping that this would give me some clues as to what I should do for her. She said that she found it hard to inflict pain on me. OK?
She invited me to put it inside her.
This I did gently and realised that I had not spent the time to turn her on like I had done the previous day. If ever there was a practical demonstration as to why men should not be allowed to orgasm that was it. Because I was so engrossed in my own world that I had forgotten that she should be first. Anyway I did go in gently and then after a few minutes she motioned to roll over so she was on top.
I could feel her moving and trying but she just did not get to orgasm.
She then said for us to roll back over and for me to cum. I have to confess at this moment I was in two worlds. Part wanting to cum and part not. I know she likes me to cum in her. I think she feels validated by that. ie her beauty turns me on so to speak and it does. I started to move and git very close. She grabbed both nipples, turned and squeezed. And I exploded. Wow talk about confusing set of feelings but a great night.
We lay back hand in hand.
I reflected, what a wonderful weekend.
Saturday morning at the gym female instructor, amazed at my wife's fitness and endurance and me personally exhausted and left with aching thighs.
Saturday afternoon turning her on to the point of orgasm.
Sunday night sex where she actually was proactive.
and in-between lots of family activities.
Now I should get back to work.
Monday, August 18, 2014
Sunday, August 17, 2014
Weekend tease and tension
Saturday morning and she asked me to come to the gym with her. Who am I to refuse. Wow by the end of that I was exhausted.
Saturday afternoon and it was raining. Somehow we ended up with an hours rest in bed. We were both fully dressed. She had a nice but shortish skirt on and I was wearing jeans. She fondled me through my jeans and I suggested that I take them off but she said to leave them on. interesting.....
I stroked her gently and she rolled onto her tummy. That was a good sign. Slow and gentle I know with her not to "go the grope" Stay away from her genitals. Back of legs, top of shoulders, bottom. Then she started to run her fingers along her panty line at the back of her legs. This was good. I allowed a finger to stray between her legs every now and then.
I asked what she was thinking. Usually a frustrating question because the answer usually does not have anything to do with the bedroom activities but this time she said she was imagining my finger inside her. I said that we could turn her thoughts into reality and I gently began to work my finger in the side of her undies and into her clit. She began to get wet and moist. This was good. Very good.
She began to move more and more and at one stage pushed herself up on one arm and pulled her top up. I took the hint and continued to touch between her legs with one hand while caressing her breast through her bra and then pushing my fingers into her bra and extracting a boob. She was moving more and more and so I decided to risk a little mouth work on the breast. I know from experience that she only responds positively to sucking on her breast if she is already turned on and this was no exception. Soon after she came in a series of shudders. Then giggled as she gets very ticklish. We lay together arm in arm and drifted off to sleep.
Awoke and hugged and kissed and she said lets see how you go waiting until tomorrow.
Ah the tease and the tension. So nice.
Saturday afternoon and it was raining. Somehow we ended up with an hours rest in bed. We were both fully dressed. She had a nice but shortish skirt on and I was wearing jeans. She fondled me through my jeans and I suggested that I take them off but she said to leave them on. interesting.....
I stroked her gently and she rolled onto her tummy. That was a good sign. Slow and gentle I know with her not to "go the grope" Stay away from her genitals. Back of legs, top of shoulders, bottom. Then she started to run her fingers along her panty line at the back of her legs. This was good. I allowed a finger to stray between her legs every now and then.
I asked what she was thinking. Usually a frustrating question because the answer usually does not have anything to do with the bedroom activities but this time she said she was imagining my finger inside her. I said that we could turn her thoughts into reality and I gently began to work my finger in the side of her undies and into her clit. She began to get wet and moist. This was good. Very good.
She began to move more and more and at one stage pushed herself up on one arm and pulled her top up. I took the hint and continued to touch between her legs with one hand while caressing her breast through her bra and then pushing my fingers into her bra and extracting a boob. She was moving more and more and so I decided to risk a little mouth work on the breast. I know from experience that she only responds positively to sucking on her breast if she is already turned on and this was no exception. Soon after she came in a series of shudders. Then giggled as she gets very ticklish. We lay together arm in arm and drifted off to sleep.
Awoke and hugged and kissed and she said lets see how you go waiting until tomorrow.
Ah the tease and the tension. So nice.
Thursday, August 14, 2014
Not till the weekend
She teased me last night. All the nice painful things - Pinching nipples, stroked penis and at time dug in her fingernails.
When I asked if I could cum she said "no not till the weekend".
:)
When I asked if I could cum she said "no not till the weekend".
:)
Friday, August 8, 2014
A misdirected gift
This morning my wife fondled me and I got hard and then she said to get inside her. Any mans dream you might think. I suggested maybe we should roll over so she was on top but she said no that this was just for me to enjoy.
Of course an orgasm is great. Its fun and relaxing.
But...... its over in an instant.
Tease followed by no orgasm lasts all day.
The sad thing is that she really does not get that. She really is not kinky and I think she genuinely thinks she was doing something nice for me. I suspect that if she and her girl friends were sitting round the coffee table the consensus would be that this sort of sexual indulgence would be considered magnanimous. A treat. A sacrifice. A very traditional present I would say.
So there you have it. She has done what she thinks is nice and yet I am left thinking well OK she made an effort but a somewhat misdirected effort. I feel she does not listen to me. Hearing without listening.
Of course an orgasm is great. Its fun and relaxing.
But...... its over in an instant.
Tease followed by no orgasm lasts all day.
The sad thing is that she really does not get that. She really is not kinky and I think she genuinely thinks she was doing something nice for me. I suspect that if she and her girl friends were sitting round the coffee table the consensus would be that this sort of sexual indulgence would be considered magnanimous. A treat. A sacrifice. A very traditional present I would say.
So there you have it. She has done what she thinks is nice and yet I am left thinking well OK she made an effort but a somewhat misdirected effort. I feel she does not listen to me. Hearing without listening.
Wednesday, July 30, 2014
A surprising discussion on castration
We were watching a TV program that mentioned castration and she said that might suit me. Ahhh yeeesss I said. Instamtly aroused.
She then said "maybe that would eaqualise our sex drives".
Wooo ? (However you spell that.)
Now my impression of her position when it comes to sex is that she has a low libido and that does not bother her.
I think she feels an obligation to have sex with me.
When she gets aroused she wants us to orgasm together. There is something about this together thing that is a long term thing. But I usually end up either cumming to quickly or if I hold off then she cums and then I get into it and cum later.
She is not into physical pain. She does not want me to spank her and she does not get aroused by spanking me.
Anyway I digress.
She said look into it. Wow.
She said she did not want me not to have erections just to not have so much drive.
She said she did not want me to be fat or lazy.
Hmm
I doubt if she is really serious but it would be interesting to investigate. A bit scary to actually do it. But hey.
She then said "maybe that would eaqualise our sex drives".
Wooo ? (However you spell that.)
Now my impression of her position when it comes to sex is that she has a low libido and that does not bother her.
I think she feels an obligation to have sex with me.
When she gets aroused she wants us to orgasm together. There is something about this together thing that is a long term thing. But I usually end up either cumming to quickly or if I hold off then she cums and then I get into it and cum later.
She is not into physical pain. She does not want me to spank her and she does not get aroused by spanking me.
Anyway I digress.
She said look into it. Wow.
She said she did not want me not to have erections just to not have so much drive.
She said she did not want me to be fat or lazy.
Hmm
I doubt if she is really serious but it would be interesting to investigate. A bit scary to actually do it. But hey.
Friday, June 20, 2014
Suprise
The marriage has been going through a rough patch. Well I have anyway. Feeling quite down and abandoned from time to time and those times becoming more frequent and more down when they do happen.
Yesterday was of that time. Felt down. Had a brief conversation with the wife about how I felt in particular how she basically seems to get her energy elsewhere and has basically abandoned me. Went to bed early. Surprise when she came into the bed room and told me to roll onto my tummy. She pulled off my boxers and proceeded to push the butt plug that has lain un used in the bed side table for probably more than 6 months maybe even a year. Then she pulled on a pair of my plastic pants on to me. Then she had me sit up and wrapped cling wrap round my chest. Then she told me to lie on my front and she retrieved the cane that has again sat unused behind the dresser and caned me a few times. Sometimes on my bottom across the plastic and sometimes on the top of the back of my legs. Some hardish and some just many quick whacks. Then she stopped and ran the tip of the cane up between my legs.
I went from feeling depressed to energised. From flaccid to aroused hard on. From sleepy to awake.
wow.
I asked if I would be allowed to cum and she said "maybe". Wow. Teasing.
Then she has me sit up and she put some of those black springy paper clips Bulldog clips? on my nipples that were under a layer of plastic. Cripes that hurt. She tried that a couple of times then said that that would make it hard for me to lie of my front so she took them off and had me lie on my front again.
Then she caned me some more. Harder than before. Then she said I was to rub myself until I came. I started to hump the bed in my plastic pants. She caned me and then stopped and got a couple of clothes pegs and reached around and put them on my nippled and then caned me some more and then with one hand giving small smacks with the cane and her other hand running her hand up between my legs and feeling my legs, pushing the butt plug through the plastic pants and squeezing my penis (yum) and balls (agh ow). Then a few more really hard hits with the cane and I came.
She came round her side of the bed and got in and turned off the light. We held hands and I also ran my hands across her shoulder and leg on my side in a kind of non invasive way and asked if I could do something for her. She just said no this was my night. That in a way was the only negative to what was a very stimulating experience.
Today (next morning) I am feeling very much better than the last few days where I was quite down. I am feeling alert and awake and positive and at work ready to go.
Yesterday was of that time. Felt down. Had a brief conversation with the wife about how I felt in particular how she basically seems to get her energy elsewhere and has basically abandoned me. Went to bed early. Surprise when she came into the bed room and told me to roll onto my tummy. She pulled off my boxers and proceeded to push the butt plug that has lain un used in the bed side table for probably more than 6 months maybe even a year. Then she pulled on a pair of my plastic pants on to me. Then she had me sit up and wrapped cling wrap round my chest. Then she told me to lie on my front and she retrieved the cane that has again sat unused behind the dresser and caned me a few times. Sometimes on my bottom across the plastic and sometimes on the top of the back of my legs. Some hardish and some just many quick whacks. Then she stopped and ran the tip of the cane up between my legs.
I went from feeling depressed to energised. From flaccid to aroused hard on. From sleepy to awake.
wow.
I asked if I would be allowed to cum and she said "maybe". Wow. Teasing.
Then she has me sit up and she put some of those black springy paper clips Bulldog clips? on my nipples that were under a layer of plastic. Cripes that hurt. She tried that a couple of times then said that that would make it hard for me to lie of my front so she took them off and had me lie on my front again.
Then she caned me some more. Harder than before. Then she said I was to rub myself until I came. I started to hump the bed in my plastic pants. She caned me and then stopped and got a couple of clothes pegs and reached around and put them on my nippled and then caned me some more and then with one hand giving small smacks with the cane and her other hand running her hand up between my legs and feeling my legs, pushing the butt plug through the plastic pants and squeezing my penis (yum) and balls (agh ow). Then a few more really hard hits with the cane and I came.
She came round her side of the bed and got in and turned off the light. We held hands and I also ran my hands across her shoulder and leg on my side in a kind of non invasive way and asked if I could do something for her. She just said no this was my night. That in a way was the only negative to what was a very stimulating experience.
Today (next morning) I am feeling very much better than the last few days where I was quite down. I am feeling alert and awake and positive and at work ready to go.
Friday, March 7, 2014
Not much happening
Not much happening in the sex / sub / relationship area.
Life is busy with kids / school / sport.
I feel I am lazy and not contributing.
I feel frustrated.
Sex is rare and dull and tense.
I have googled chastity and abstinence. I think I will choose one or two results and simply forward the urls to my wife.
I enjoy reading other blogs about submissive husbands and wife lead marriage.
Life is busy with kids / school / sport.
I feel I am lazy and not contributing.
I feel frustrated.
Sex is rare and dull and tense.
I have googled chastity and abstinence. I think I will choose one or two results and simply forward the urls to my wife.
I enjoy reading other blogs about submissive husbands and wife lead marriage.
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