First night back with wife

I cooked dinner,
washed up.

Later I got into bed and lay there. She had a shower and came into the bed room stark naked. I asked if she would like a back massage. She said no not a back massage but that I could give her a foot massage. She then lay on her back still naked and I massaged her feet. She fell asleep. I figured I would just keep massaging as she had not told me to stop. I was feeling very much submissive and turned on.

Eventually she woke up and said thank you. Then she said she was going to sleep and that I was not to disturb her. I asked about sex and she said maybe we will keep you till the end of the month. Aaaa. oooo. I am so turned on and at the same time sexually frustrated. I fun yet scary feeling.

So now I am awake and cant sleep so I figured I would write this entry.

I wonder what it would be like to say be limited to three or four orgasms per year.
I wonder which would be better- knowing the dates that it was to happen or for it to be a surprise?

Mr submissive husband has suggested doing something she would like every day. ideas?