Butt plug

Last night I asked

"why don't you put the butt plug in me"

And you answered the question.

You said something along the lines

"because it's uncomfortable" or perhaps you said "annoying"

I do not recall exactly what you said but it was along those lines.

How do you know it's uncomfortable.

So what if it is uncomfortable or annoying anyway.

You have put in in me once or twice in the past. Did I say it was uncomfortable or annoying?

Our love life is as much about listening as anything else.

I think you think it might be annoying if you were wearing it and so you do not put it in me because of what you think it would be like for you.

I think you would find it annoying or uncomfortable because you would approach it from that perspective anyway and what I don't know is how we get past that. Becuause whatever is causing you to approach it from that perspective is the same blockage that is causing you to see almost anything sexual as annoying or uncomfortable, or abusve, whatever.

So let me be quite clear

My memories of when you put it in me in the past are good memories. Maybe it was uncomfortable or annoying. I do not remember. I do remember a good experience though.

and

so what if it was annoying or uncomfrtable. For me that would be a much a turn on as it would be a turn off. Trying to deal with the conflicting feeling, the feeling of frustration. Do I want to wear it 24/7. No. Would I wear it 24/7 - only if you asked (read told / made) me do it. What I would like to do is try it, talk about it and try it again and talk about it again. Maybe 1 minute, maybe 1 hr maybe 1 day. Who knows and at this time who cares.