Last night (sunday night) we watched a movie together and then went to bed. I was really turned on and asked for sex. Yes I know I had made a personal commitment not to. She said no. Not tonight. The discussion continued and was fun. At one stage I asked how long and she said a week. Two weeks if I am grumpy.
Be careful what you ask for comes to mind.
There is also a sort of freshness wash over me. Knowing that I will not be getting release means I can put energy into other things and not get in this incessant loop of expectation leading to frustration.
It is I think also a win - win. She does not get pressured for sex. I have to struggle in a fun way to resist the urge. If we do engage in physical activities, I can enjoy just focussing on her and it is really good for both of us if she cums. I enjoy lying on my back with her on top and enjoying herself.
Lets see how we go.
Then this morning, we cuddled and she asked how I slept. I said "pretty good". she said she was worried I might not sleep well after being denied release. I said "I will get used to it"
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