I feel like no one understands me.
I am sure that my wife just does not "get it" when it comes to kinky stuff.
I write here and there are few readers and no conversation.
I would love to chat with people. Converse. But it seems that I am destined to do this life alone.
Sorry to my few readers to sound negative. Just feeling a little down right now.
Pull your finger out of your arse and count your blessings. Your wife just caned you maybe not as hard or enthusiastically as you would like but she has started and i assume that you still have not been allowed to cum. Find a professional Dome and try and arrange for you and your wife to visit her with the knowledge that you wife will have to be led gently. Shouldn't be hard in Australia as prostitution is legal.
ReplyDeleteI follow you because your relationship with your partner is so mismatched but I see signs of improvement with your recent post ("Caned").
ReplyDeleteHi Pantyslave and dave94015,
ReplyDeleteThanks for commenting. Sometimes my wife indulges me and that is fatastic but I do not think she 'gets' it.
So discussing kink with her is awkward.
What I was trying to say here was that I really want to chat with others and discuss but that does not seem to happen if that makes sense.
To engage conversationally, you need to perhaps add more substance to your posts, ask questions, pose theories that are a little controversial, etc. you know, like in real life. Start a conversation rather than moaning about how your wife doesn't understand you. Face it. You have married a woman who is not as kinky as you are. Many others have dealt with this successfully. You can too if you change your outlook: As a submissive man, your purpose is to serve her and make her life easier, not to continuously nag her about playing up to you fantasies and kinks. It is about Her, not you! If i was your domme, You would be severely punished, and you would be in chastity, and you would have no access to porn at all, and you would quickly understand your responsibility in the relationship.
ReplyDeleteOh well said Mistress Nayda. My Wife/Mistress punishes me every time i check this site. But Mistress orders me to check it at least once a day and gives double punishment every time submissive husband posts. i really would love to see his reaction to fifty strokes expertly placed with a cane
ReplyDeleteQuote: " i really would love to see his reaction to fifty strokes expertly placed with a cane"
ReplyDeleteResponse:
So would I
:)
Be careful what I wish for.
And MsNaydi,
ReplyDeleteI suspect we would all be the better for it.
I would be better - challenged and I suspect a feeling of accomplishment.
I suspect that my wife would also be better off. I suspect if she was involved, she would learn that the things that turn me on may be different but not becessarilly damaging. I suspect too that she would gain confidence and enjoy the beefits of my serviec.
Maybe we should hop on a plane and come visit you for say a month.
:)
Do you realize that you are never going to get what you want? If your wife suddenly becomes more dominant, and you do as she commands, she is going to take the kink out of the relationship.
ReplyDeleteYour fantasies do not seem to please her. She is not dominant, and partakes to try to please you.
I think you should stop envisioning what you want for just a minute. Now try to realistically picture what life will be like if she gets to the point where she disregards your desires, and you conform to what she wants. I would be interested in what you foresee.
Quote "Do you realize that you are never going to get what you want? If your wife suddenly becomes more dominant, and you do as she commands, she is going to take the kink out of the relationship."
ReplyDeleteCatch 22
:)