I am a male. I do guy stuff. This is not about being some kind of spineless brainless thing. Nor is it about somehow me turning into a woman.
It is about me following my wife to the best of my ability and using those abilities to help her and our family.
At present its a pretty lonely feeling and I really welcome your thoughts and comments. I guess I crave affection and reassurance and recognition.
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
She is buying a house
She is buying a house.
Not us or we. She is.
She wants a holiday house. She goes to see the real estate people. She goes to see the bank. She talks to the accountant.
Sometimes I get cc'd on an email.
I do feel a bit down. At an academic level, more than happy for her to have a house, decide to have a house, find the house. I guess more a feeling that the relationship is somewhat numb I think. It would be fine if she was overtly dominant and assertive but its not. I feel that she is simply self centred perhaps. I guess in a nutshell - "why am I here"
I am sorry you're feeling this way. I hope after a good night rest you'll think differently. Try to be happy She is taking the lead. Keep us posted please
Do you find it difficult to accept? To me you sound disappointed.
ReplyDeleteOr are you just mentioning it as a statement how well She is acting as the boss?
appy
I do feel a bit down. At an academic level, more than happy for her to have a house, decide to have a house, find the house. I guess more a feeling that the relationship is somewhat numb I think. It would be fine if she was overtly dominant and assertive but its not. I feel that she is simply self centred perhaps. I guess in a nutshell - "why am I here"
DeleteI am sorry you're feeling this way.
ReplyDeleteI hope after a good night rest you'll think differently. Try to be happy She is taking the lead.
Keep us posted please