Regular readers would know that from time to time I muse about the philosophy of all this
For example
http://submanhub.blogspot.com/2011/06/submissive-vs-childish.html
I wonder what the difference between a submissive husband and simply a helpful husband is.
Perhaps that is the benefit for her.
They say 'women give sex to get love, men give love to get sex'
Am I giving - being helpful to her to get love and or sex?
Before our "femdom" play, I would say that I was a helpful husband when I was looking for sex. Non submissive husbands know this, as there is a lot of research that men that help around the house get more bedroom action. It's totally true.
ReplyDeleteBut a submissive husband gets satisfaction in the act of making his wife's life better. Sex has been more and more "about her" and not about me, and I am very happy. I think that's the difference.