I was thinking as I do about submission and kink.
These are random thoughts in no particular order.
I am I suspect both but are they one and the same. Is submissive a kink could a man be genuninely submissive
I have a male friend who has in recent times had bouts of depression. I do not know if he is being treated or just gets down a bit (as I do). Both our families were on a bit of a day trip recently and we parked in a tricky spot. Steep, narrow road and a very tight parking spot which required a bit of finesse to get in and out with the help of someone to wave and give advice. When it came time to go, him and I packed the cars while the women took more photos, looked at the view and so on. naturally I sexualised it and saw it as being a servant. No idea what he did. But then his wife came over and said "He's not driving I don't trust him". Wow I felt for him. To me a huge kick in the guts. No wonder he gets down. To me being submissive is strength but I suspect he is just beaten down verbally.
I wonder how much is driven by sexual drive.
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