I am amazed.
Last night she hops into bed and bites me on the breast.
wow.
It hurt
It stimulated
Most of all though she did it with out being asked.
In other news (& thoughts musing and all that mind stuff),
We have not done her waxing yet as she was out at a meeting until late and we did not get into the bed room until after 10pm. On a non work night maybe one could do something but when I have to be up at 5:30 and taking a child to a school thing leaving just after 6am
Its now 2 weeks for me with no orgasm. She has come a couple of times. We have spent much much more time cuddling and just being together. So the benefits outweigh the costs.
I do have moments of grumpyness but trying to control those. Wish she would whip me for them.
I find from time to time a feeling of "will it ever work again" sort of thing. Hard to describe.
I am sure I am addicted to ... sex
Blogging
Is it porn when one goes looking for blog postings about submissive husbands and dominant wives?
Is it just too weird when I prick up my ears when I hear a mother or wife laying down the law to husband or child. When wives / mothers set rules, take control and so on.
Great to see that you received a bite! Funny how so many of us would love that to happen. It doesn't take much does it?!
ReplyDeleteAs for "will it ever work again"....from what I see its working....give it time and enjoy the ride.
Enjoy the waxing when it happens.
I have a biased view of course, but to me it isn't porn when you are looking for blog posts about sub husbands/dom wives. We're all trying to learn. I too perk up my ears when I hear a wife that is being somewhat forceful and imagine that its FLR style. Sometimes I wonder how many couples we know could be in the know on FLR dynamics.
I agree, i love reading the same blogs as you seem to. Nipple biting..... Love it! Heres to more. :)
ReplyDeleteHi guys & girls,
ReplyDelete"Sometimes I wonder how many couples we know could be in the know on FLR dynamics"
The intriguing thing is that I think many many couples the wife is in charge and the husband recognises it but instead of it being a FLR dynamic it sort of is flat. I don't know what words to use but so many guys will say that the wife is in charge. You know we are having a discussion and a number of guys will say that they 'have to check with the wife'.
I guess it has to be with where your head space is. And whether all parties recognise and play their part.
I guess when it comes to 'abuse' it is all in the angle you come at. A sporting or fitness coach can scream and yell at a person and in that context they will be motivated to improve. In another context the person being screamed at will feel deflated / no good and there will be no motivation and likely negative feelings.
Connie,
"i love reading the same blogs as you seem to..."
If you find any interesting ones please let me know as some of the blogs on my list seem to have not been updated in a while.