On Saturday, I lost my temper with one of my kids.
She thinks this is due to tension caused by abstinance.
She is probably right.
On Saturday night, I asked her to punish me.
She did whip me but it was a somewhat ordinary whipping
On Sunday morning we had sex and I came.
It was kind of a let down because
a) I had lost control of myself (Saturday)
b) I did not succeed in turning her on.
c) She did not cum
d) She did not hold me to abstain
Hi
ReplyDeleteMy wife and I had very very similar issues. But, together, we have made real process into a WLM. Her dominant side has grown exponentially and my abstinence is enforced by CB6000.
Punishment is still an issue, and for a long time it all felt like something that was done 'for' me. Lately, however, she has by her own admission suddenly gotten into the whole thing. She tells me that she feels empowered and her regime is growing a lot stricter. All I can say is that it has been a slow by ultimately rewarding process, and the book that kick started it for her was 'Around Her Finger'. If you don't know it then buy it, read it, give it to her. I honestly believe that all other efforts would have come to nothing without this book.
Good Luck
John