She sent a reply agreeing.
Then she sent me a text instructing me to sort out an insuance issue with one of our cars.
I have just received a text that reads
"Do I have your blessing to go to this new exercise class tonight at the gym. I will be home just after you put the kids to bed."
There is a subtilty with the wording. You may note it appears that she is asking my permission but there is a sort of a catch here. Firstly if I sulk and complain that she is out and I am lonely then she will say that she asked me and I was ok with it. The next thing is if I say 'no' then she has a different engagement that would have resulted in her being out anyway.
Next I note the implied instruction that I will put the kids to bed.
And finally what is not obvious is that it is implied that if I am going to get my fix of 15 minutes of physical attention tonight then by the time she gets home I must have done all of the following
- Kitchen & dining room table cleaned and
- washing up done or had the kids do it but that usualy means I do at least the last bit.
- Supervised kids home work. (No TV allowed during the week).
- School uniforms ironed and ready in each kids bed room.
- Children bathed and in bed.
- I have put a glass of water beside her bed.
If any of this is not done, then she will do it when she gets home and that means that even though I will get attention it will not be for ages as as well as doing whatever I did not do, she will do other things and she will go and check her email. on the plus side, If I do it, she will be happier and there is more chance of something exciting happening. So guess we all know what I will be doing tonight.
Incidentilly she took the TV out of the lounge room so if any of us want to watch TV there is a lot of rigmorole involved in bring it in and connecting it up. So you can see how she controls things even in a non sexual way.
On the plus side, as a hang over from when I was more dominant and as a result of her christian upbringing and the idea that women should look feminine etc etc, there is a very good chance that she will wear her sexy short sports skirt to the gym. It has built in lycra undies and I very much enjoy seeing her in it.