Friday, June 28, 2013

ah the cane

It's one of those morning when she just has to be getting early and quick.

I was feeling somewhat neglected because no sexy interaction has been occurring.  Read having a sulk.  I was wearing my plastic pants

I said "you could give me few strokes with the cane"

she got up. Went to the toilet and got the cane from behind the dresser.

I lay there face down on the bed rubbing myself against the bed I could just hear the plastic mattress cover crinkling.  Then she brought the cane down on the backs of my thighs.  Oh that hurt.  She did everything right from my kinky male perspective.  Caning and also just running the cane along on my skin.  I guess that is a thing that distinguishes a sexy caning from a purely disciplinary caning that one got as a kid.

So fresh.


A nice way to start the day.

Thursday, June 27, 2013


We have been seeing the marriage councillor.  Can't say I am enamoured by her.  She has indicated that my sexual enjoyment is my responsibility indicating clearly that I should leave my wife alone and masturbate.

So for the last week, I figured whatever...

So I have been wearing plastic pants because I like it and I have not asked my wife for sex or any physical sexualised play.

Does not seem to actually make any difference.  She has noticed and has rubbed me on occasion.

Last night she said that she was thinking that she might deny me orgasm but then did not actually deny me and then fell asleep.

It frustrates me that she has infinite energy for many things but not for sex or sex play.

So we continue sort of aimlessly.

Anyone know a kinky councillor in Brisbane?

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

just finished the washing up

Got home from work to find a veritable kindergarten in our house.  Several other mothers and various children.  They had combined efforts and produced a beautiful dinner while working their way through a bottle or two of bubbly.  This extended into the evening and a few husbands arrived having been texted by their wives that if they wanted dinner then they had better come here because this was where it was at.

The gaggle left in a bit of a hurry.  Time to get kids to bed...  As they were leaving someone said what about the dishes.  Someone else said "don't worry the support crew will take care of it wont they?"  "He does a wonderful job" said my wife looking at me. 

So just spent the last hour and a half loading the dishwasher, decanting the left overs into old Chinese take away containers and then washing up all the stuff that did not fit in the dishwasher.  Wiping down the benches.  

You know and feeling perfectly OK about it.  And also musing what others think.  Obviously some of the mums have some kind of an idea that I like to be given tasks and so on.

Smile quietly to myself.

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Lunch time sex

We swapped a few texts yesterday. I had an errand to run for work so organised to have lunch at home with the wife while I was out and about. 

Ended up having sex.  Well mutual masturbation actually.  Started with lunch and I mused over whether to not mention it or ask for some physical interaction.  If the councillor is right and I am pushing her away then maybe I should just wank away.  However she was dressed in her gym gear including a very short and in my view sexy skirt.  So I figured I would suggest doing something. 

I suggested that we hop on the bed and I put on some plastic pants.  The idea in my mind was that if she did not want me inside her then that would give her that space.  A benefit for me was feeling her in her sexy tight gym clothes and of course the enjoyment of plastic.  The down side for her was that it is not straight sex and as far as I can see that it pretty much what she likes and anything else is seen as kinky.

We enjoyed each others company and I left her sleeping.  I hope she had a restful afternoon.

In other areas,
I went back to the gym the other night.  A new personal trainer.  He pushed me hard and I am now aching.  I read this article.  Gee I would absolutely love a young female trainer with a riding crop.  Personally the idea of a bare bottom spanking kind of does not fit but I could certainly imagine being in a public gym as the young female PT yells at me for motivation and so on. A bonus would be that we meet at home say and in front of my wife, she bends me over and lays into me with the riding crop for being lazy or weak with the diet.  It would of course be nice for her to strut around the gym with the riding crop but trying to imagine what could really happen here.

I know it is not morally correct but almost ran into the car in front as a girl from a private school walked along the foot path in a very short sports skirt.  Short black bike pants just visible under it.  When I went to school that was quite normal but these days they tend to either wear culottes or just plain bike pants.

At home last night, we are preparing to host a billet for school.  There was maintenance to do.  Cleaning too saw me on the vacuum cleaner.  There are light bulbs to change and some tap washers too.  I think she has tasked me to remove the grime from the bath room.  I think I will try the high pressure water cleaner.  Interesting to muse on the idea of a guy cleaning the bath room.  In a misogynistic way a historically female job yet can obviously be done by a guy and in a guy way.  High pressure water.  Mind you I may need to mop the rest of the house if it gets out of control.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Mariage counselling

Well we are having some marriage counselling.  I asked my wife to find someone.  I figured if she found the person then she might not feel so much that I have corralled her into taking such advice.

In my opinion my wife is ridiculously over committed and that in turn takes her interest away from the marriage.

Yesterday I had a session on my own with the counsellor.  Female.  About my age maybe a couple of years older (50 to 55).

One topic discussed was sex.  The counsellor reckons that I am pushing my wife away and she seeks satisfaction in all these other activities she gets involved with.

I in turn think she gets involved with these and abandons me.

Either way a vicious circle.

The counsellor discussed masturbation and has said "My sexual pleasure is my responsibility".  ie if I want to wank away then that is great.  She was quite clear that when it comes to marriage there is no such thing as "duty".

I felt it was all a bit pointless. 

I said I thought masturbation is wrong because is selfish.  I said that yes it is hard not not orgasm and that I needed my wifes help to abstain and she said stop bothering her.  Basically have a wank and get on with your life. 

On the other hand, last night, no sex on my part.  Did not even bring up the topic.  But at one stage my wife was in tears because (in my opinion) she is involved in so many activities that she can not give any of them the attention they need so things are falling apart.

In one organisation, people have been resigning and now some of the remaining stalwarts have chosen a really bizarre path because they don't want to resign but nor do they want to organise the activity that the group was created to do.  In another there are some interpersonal issues and the list goes on.

Anyway that is probably not what you lot want to read about.