Thursday, February 9, 2012
Girl with Dragon Tattoo
The wife and I watched the US version of the Girl with the dragon tattoo last night.
From my point of view, and that point of view being a guy with a submissive kink, there was a good FLR aspect to the film that seemed totally lost on my wife.
SPOILER WARNING
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
to cum or not to cum
What's with that 'not cuming' thing I have to wonder
In his blog subservient husband asks his wife for 1 year of chastity.
http://subservient-husband.blogspot.com.au/2012/02/tale-of-2-trips.html
But he has this desire to be chaste and persists and finally she gives in. You can read all about it on the above link .
I have read various other blogs by submissive guys that echo the same desire to be chaste.
I too have this desire to be chaste. My wife has indicated that she likes me to cum inside her.
From my point of view, my holding off gives her the opportunity to cum. Once I cum, I go soft and I loose interest. She has no chance. So with my desire to make life good for her I like to hold off.
But as I mentioned, my wife likes me to cum and cum inside her.
The other interesting part of subservient husband posting is
Another common feature is that his wife, like my wife, is not into punishing.
In the end, it seems like his wife and my wife go along with this to keep us men happy.
Maybe that is all that matters.
I wonder what it would be like, if my wife were demanding a certain behaviour of me and that I was not on board with it. Would I feel stressed, angry?
In his blog subservient husband asks his wife for 1 year of chastity.
http://subservient-husband.blogspot.com.au/2012/02/tale-of-2-trips.html
I had asked my wife around the turn of the new-year if she was comfortable with a 1 yr chastity duration. After thinking about it for a few days, she responded she was notyet his wife says nah.
But he has this desire to be chaste and persists and finally she gives in. You can read all about it on the above link .
I have read various other blogs by submissive guys that echo the same desire to be chaste.
I too have this desire to be chaste. My wife has indicated that she likes me to cum inside her.
From my point of view, my holding off gives her the opportunity to cum. Once I cum, I go soft and I loose interest. She has no chance. So with my desire to make life good for her I like to hold off.
But as I mentioned, my wife likes me to cum and cum inside her.
The other interesting part of subservient husband posting is
I accepted her decision, but was a little let down. I felt I was ready to try a 1 yr duration. I could see her point of view though.So my self imposed desire is to be submissive and yet his first reacion, like mine, is to feel a little down when she is not on board with my idea of "submission".
Another common feature is that his wife, like my wife, is not into punishing.
In the end, it seems like his wife and my wife go along with this to keep us men happy.
Maybe that is all that matters.
I wonder what it would be like, if my wife were demanding a certain behaviour of me and that I was not on board with it. Would I feel stressed, angry?
Monday, February 6, 2012
Fun sex sunday
After a fun but sexually tense Saturday my wife let me cum on Sunday morning. Early before church and the kids were still sleeping. She said she wanted me on top and she wanted me to cum.
We discussed holding off and it just being for her pleasure. She said she still wanted me on top. I asked about putting on two condoms and she said "if you must". This was not a good response fo rme to hear but I guess I was not listening to her. So I put them on and put on some lube and pressed gently in. We moved together and then she said to roll over.
We rolled over and continued and then she said OK back with you on top. I think she needed to time on top to get turned on. The with me on top we kept going and she came. I was so turned on. I lay on top and asked if I was too heavy and she said no. just comforting.
I felt her tightening on my still erect penis. I was very turned on. I started to move inside her again. She said "I really want you to cum". I said I had better take the condoms off. She said "Do you think you could come with them on?". I said "right now I could I am so ready". She said "I want you to come now with the condoms on". So it took only a few more seocnds and we came together.
Then lay beside each other and went back to sleep.
We discussed holding off and it just being for her pleasure. She said she still wanted me on top. I asked about putting on two condoms and she said "if you must". This was not a good response fo rme to hear but I guess I was not listening to her. So I put them on and put on some lube and pressed gently in. We moved together and then she said to roll over.
We rolled over and continued and then she said OK back with you on top. I think she needed to time on top to get turned on. The with me on top we kept going and she came. I was so turned on. I lay on top and asked if I was too heavy and she said no. just comforting.
I felt her tightening on my still erect penis. I was very turned on. I started to move inside her again. She said "I really want you to cum". I said I had better take the condoms off. She said "Do you think you could come with them on?". I said "right now I could I am so ready". She said "I want you to come now with the condoms on". So it took only a few more seocnds and we came together.
Then lay beside each other and went back to sleep.
Saturday, February 4, 2012
6 days and a light smack
My wife was out at a function she organised last night.
She got home at 11pm to a clean house.
Kids in bed sleeping.
Dishes done.
Lounge tidy.
Husband had had a nap and was awake and sociable when she arrived. (typically I fall asleep during the evening)
I lay in bed. She had a quick shower. When she came into the bed room from the shower she was naked and carrying the leather belt (everything else had been put in the dirty laundry basket). She playfully slapped it down on me and said roll over. Then a few more smacks with it.
Then she got into bed. I have to confess I would have enjoyed more but the real nice part about this was that I had not asked, cajoled or anything. We cuddled. I was turned on. Would loved to have had sex but have made a personal commitment to myself to not ask for sex or even raise it as a subject and see if she gets some libido back.
Got up early this morning. To avoid wishing too much for sex, went to the gym.
She is currently sleeping.
She got home at 11pm to a clean house.
Kids in bed sleeping.
Dishes done.
Lounge tidy.
Husband had had a nap and was awake and sociable when she arrived. (typically I fall asleep during the evening)
I lay in bed. She had a quick shower. When she came into the bed room from the shower she was naked and carrying the leather belt (everything else had been put in the dirty laundry basket). She playfully slapped it down on me and said roll over. Then a few more smacks with it.
Then she got into bed. I have to confess I would have enjoyed more but the real nice part about this was that I had not asked, cajoled or anything. We cuddled. I was turned on. Would loved to have had sex but have made a personal commitment to myself to not ask for sex or even raise it as a subject and see if she gets some libido back.
Got up early this morning. To avoid wishing too much for sex, went to the gym.
She is currently sleeping.
Friday, February 3, 2012
5days abstineance
Kind of at that fun point of tension and excitement.
Motivates me to do things for her.
Have to watch I do not get grumpy.
A two edged sword.
At work I think about her constantly.
At home, I make sure I do not sit in front of the TV or computer and that I do get on with washing and cleaning and being ready to help her. Last night I was able to help her with a computer issue which was great because I am good with computers, I like them and my actions helped her. Plus we were sitting together which we both liked. After she said she had enjoyed that time together. win win.
Motivates me to do things for her.
Have to watch I do not get grumpy.
A two edged sword.
At work I think about her constantly.
At home, I make sure I do not sit in front of the TV or computer and that I do get on with washing and cleaning and being ready to help her. Last night I was able to help her with a computer issue which was great because I am good with computers, I like them and my actions helped her. Plus we were sitting together which we both liked. After she said she had enjoyed that time together. win win.
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Its all about the man
Philosophical musing.
I wonder if guys become submissive in order to get attention from their wives?
That is their motivation to do things for their wives is a selfish motivation becuse they seek acknowledgement and validation of their existance.
When I read other blogs by submissive guys it seems that this is a possibility.
When I read blogs by sumbissive females it is different. It seems that they genuinly sacrifice for their husband / male partner. (Restricting musing to hetrosexual relationships here)
I wonder if guys become submissive in order to get attention from their wives?
That is their motivation to do things for their wives is a selfish motivation becuse they seek acknowledgement and validation of their existance.
When I read other blogs by submissive guys it seems that this is a possibility.
When I read blogs by sumbissive females it is different. It seems that they genuinly sacrifice for their husband / male partner. (Restricting musing to hetrosexual relationships here)
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