Some random thoughts on submission and power exchange relationships.
I think both parties have to get something out of the relationship.
Its a power exchange and exchange to me implies a trade.
I would love it if she
a) wanted me not to abstain from orgasm.
b) Wanted me to stimulate her to orgasm.
c) Would ask how I am going, take an interest in me. Encourage me, tease me, punish me.
To me, being submissive does not mean dumping all the decisions on her. Big decisions - yes but she should not be burdened by detail.
Being submissibe does not mean switching off my brain. It actually means to me, taking responsibility for the things that I am given responsibility for and ensuring that they are done, done right and done completely.
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