Friday, December 7, 2012

Body language

In this interesting talk, the speaker Amy Cuddy asks if the body posture can alter the mind.

she proposes "Fake it till you make it" as a way to deal with situations.  The bent is on pretend to be confident until you become confident.  I wonder if pretend to be submissive until you are submissive.

In various videos I have seen there is talk about body language.  Apparantly we do not mirror body language in a like meets like fashion.  If one person adopts a dominant stance, the other adopts a submissive stance. 

I wonder if I were careful to always adopt a submissive stance then would that empower my wife to adopt bold stances and given the talk above would that eventually lead to her being more dominant.

1 comment:

  1. You are pushing you Mistress/Wife too hard. Let it flow and just be submissive. Your Mistress has caned you and needs to do so again.. Do something to annoy her and humbly apologize and beg to be caned.