Tuesday, May 29, 2012

The reason to blog

http://sheisincharge.blogspot.com/ mentions that the WLM FLM relationship has not developed and that he had given up both the FLM and the blogging.

This got me thinking about why I blog and I think it comes down to firstly a way just to get some of my thoughts and frustrations out so I can get on with my life.  At the same time, writing helps me clarify what exactly I am thinking and feeling and sometimes a little of why.

Another reason is that I think I am looking for a substitute for her listening ear.
She is controlling but does not recognise it.  She does not want to be dominant in the kinky sense of the word.


  1. I can relate to you totally. I am in the same situation. My wife is very controlling and very comfortable in that role. She does not recognize it as anything but her being herself. I have become aware that only a year ago that I am very much in tune with and enjoy being under her control. I would like for her to exert more control openly and verbalize it but so far the best she can do is refer to herself as being bossy. But I love it and have told her so. She to sees most everything as kinky that is not missionary stile sex with lights off. I am patiently submitting, doing all of her chores as well as the family chores with the kids so she has a much freedom as possible. I am finding it easier to be very frank with her in my expression of my submission and she has come to accept and in some ways expect it. There are very small glimpses of her verbal assertion of dominance over me and I relish them when it happens. Like last night. I offered to rub her feet which she did not accept, but later as she was about to go off to sleep after lying next to me with her thigh thrown over me and lying on my cock (which got hard just from her contact) she whispered to me the she would let me rub her feet tomorrow night. Operative word was "let". I thanked her and told her I will be looking forward to it.

    Keep your head up (or down if she likes)and we will soldier on together. I love your blog very much and find encouragement in it.


    Anne's Sub

    1. Hi Annies sub,

      Thanks for the message.

      Somewhere I read that men sexualise everything. That they only enjoy doing the dishes if they can sexualise it. I would agree. Just how to get the girls to understand that ad understand it is not bad.