Saturday, July 23, 2011


Just feeling a bit ordinary right now.

We have some friends over.  Earlier today my wife said she "was just going to wear jeans even though she knows I would prefer to wear a skirt"  She has every right to dress how she likes but I just felt irrelevant.  Get over it!.

I was also a bit anoyed that there were several things that she sort of half organised and I was left to make them work.

There grumbled here and not at her.


  1. I do not quite understand. I would have thought your wife's words would please you. She's spelling out to you that her preferences take precedence over yours. If that makes you feel irrelevant, even better. Isn't irrelevant how submissve men want to feel?
    Obviously not in your case. - Well, we are all different, but I really thought that it was a good, "dominant" thing to say.

  2. Hi Tamara,

    You are 120% absolutely right.