It's Sunday night.
Waiting for you to come home.
Hoping you've had a great day.
We'll see what happens ... : )
Right now there are two motivations, two drivers for me wanting sex.
1. The physical desire. The physical pressure within me. I am a guy and that is the way it is.
2. The desire I have that you are happy. In particular that you get to have great enjoyment.
The first thing is that as I think about it, what I want first is a way in my own mind to swap the order of these areound. I want to be in the mindset that puts your happyness first.
The next thing is that I suspect that I need to find a way to make your whole life happy. In as much as I influnece it anyway.
We didn't have sex last night and I appreciate that you were not turned on. I was not here until late and I guess that meant that there was not time. time to just be together. I appreciate that you did not just give me relief. Thankyou for being honest with your feelings. Thank you for having the strength to say no.
So I wait.
No! I need to do more. I need to proactivly change my behaviour. I need to do things so she is happy. Actually more than happy. So she is inspired.
I am asking for your help with ideas to turn her on. I am willing to do anything. So do not limit yourselves. What would she just love. What too should I do. It could be simple at home stuff right through to the special treats and presents.
Over to you guys on what I can do.